Online Dating Matches

Here are the latest EXCLUSIVE eHarmony promotional code
for the month of August 2008.
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The summer months are winding down to a close, have
you found the love of your life yet? If you have even
toyed with the thought of spending the upcoming holidays
with your significant other that you are dating….now is the
best time to meet someone online so that when December
rolls around, you will already have a strong 6 month relationship
under your belt and the holidays will be brighter than they have
ever been
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Here is the link for the Free $40 value Personality Profile:

Expires: 8/31/2008

Take your time in filling out the eHarmony
personality profile. eHarmony spends tens
of thousands of dollars every year to support
academic research into human compatibility.
eHarmony then takes their latest scientific
findings and incorporates them into their
personality profile. It is unlike anything you
have seen before…

It is also very important to be completely
honest in the questions that the personality
profile asks you. The reason being is because
after you are done, eHarmony then shows you
a huge report about your personality and the
type of person that you are. They then show
you the members on eHarmony whom you are
MOST compatible with. Don’t worry because
the other members cannot see the results of
your personality profile (unless you chose
otherwise).

Even if you don’t plan on signing up for eHarmony,
take a few minutes to fill out the personality
profile. It is a great tool to see yourself
as how others see you. Ever try looking
in a mirror? Chances are, if you weren’t
moving your lips, the mirror was not talking
back to you. Picture the eHarmony
personality profile as a talking mirror….

That reflects the true person that you are.
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Hot tip !!: Check out the
page for all of the latest unadvertised
discounts/promotions that eHarmony is running. I found
out about the “Free Communication Weekend”
this way.
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Exclusive August Coupon Code for
OnlineDatingMatches.com viewers:

3 Months for the price of 1
CLICK LINK BELOW AND ENTER
EHARMONY PROMOTIONAL CODE:
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Expires: August 31st, 2008

(”ONLINEDATINGMATCHAAA” was last month’s
eHarmony promotional code, and may still
work for the 15% off renewal).
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20% off a 6 month subscription AND $24.95 renewal !!
CLICK THE LINK BELOW AND ENTER
EHARMONY PROMOTIONAL CODE:
CJSPRINGPROMOAAB

Expires: August 31st, 2008
If you wish to renew at the end of your 6 months
eHarmony subscription, the renewal fee is only $24.95

This is an awesome deal because let’s face it….
eHarmony has TONS of quality members, but
are you really going to marry the first guy/girl
that you go out on a date with????

I would advise you to take your time and don’t
rush into a relationship. The matches eHarmony
gives you are all top notch and who knows
who is just around the corner?

For once in your life take the time to enjoy
dating quality singles instead of the losers
and low-lifes you meet at the local bar or
through “well meaning” friends.
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20% off a 6 month membership
CLICK LINK BELOW AND ENTER
EHARMONY PROMOTIONAL CODE:
CJWINTERPROMOAAA
Expires: August 31st, 2008
Note: CJFALLPROMO07 may still work
beyond the expiration date of 7/31/08
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The following eHarmony discounts will
be automatically activated once you click the link.
There is no need to enter in an eHarmony promotional
code

65% off monthly rate with 12 month plan ($468 in Savings)
CLICK BELOW TO ACTIVATE
EHARMONY PROMOTIONAL CODE
Expires: August 31st, 2008

52% off monthly rate with 6 month plan ($186 in Savings)
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One Month Membership discount:
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If you know of someone that is constantly failing
in the dating game, you can always buy them
an eHarmony gift subscription. This is a great
way to (nicely) force them to get off their lazy
asses, get away from the bars and gutters and
start meeting (and dating) quality singles.

I had a friend who always complained that
“a good man is hard to find”, yet her idea
of “looking for a man” was going to the local
dive bar and getting slosh-faced drunk. I got
tired of hearing her sob stories so for her Birthday
I bought her a 6 month eHarmony gift subscription
(used one of the eHarmony promo codes above)
and within the first 4 months she had gone out
on almost 8 dates. She was semi ambitious in
looking for “Mr. Right” so she spent a lot of time
dating new people she met off eHarmony.
She is now currently in a committed relationship
with what she calls “the love of my life”.

Low self esteem. It affects almost every single
person in this world, to some extent or another.
Some people have worse self esteem than others.
Even people whom you think have high self-esteem
may be actually putting on a good show and covering
up the fact that they don’t.

Whatever it is, whatever the reason, low self esteem
is only going to harm you when it comes to dating.
People naturally are attracted to other people who
have high self esteem. Low self esteem is seen by others
as “low self worth”. If you are single, you are naturally
looking for someone who is of value in one way or another.
This means that people naturally put a “value” on other
people that they meet during the course of their lives.
High self esteem is very important to attracting
(and keeping) someone that you want to date. The question
now begs: “How does one go about getting high self esteem?”

Not all of us are super models. Not everyone
has a “perfect body”, not everyone has money and a nice
car. First off you have to analyze yourself and try to see
how others view you, then you need to figure out what
things in life, or what qualities you have that are great.
Whenever someone asks me “how do I go about trying
to figure out how other people view me”, I simply suggest
they ask a close friend, or loved one to give them their
thoughts. Although sometimes their thoughts and views
can be biased (”well, my mommy told me I was good”….).

I suggest you take advantage of some of the free tools
out there on the internet. One very good tool is the
.

eHarmony spends hundreds of thousands of dollars every year
in researching human compatibility/relationships. They then take
their findings and incorporate it/update into their free online
personality profile quiz. I have people take this personality
profile because it is completely free, with no credit
card required (you are not obligated to sign up for
eHarmony if you take their personality profile quiz)
and it gives you an honest view as to
how other people see you. The results of your
personality profile are several pages in length
and go into great detail about your personality.

Once you have that in hand, print it out for
future reference.

Now it is time to begin building on your self esteem.
Take a look at the personality profile then compare
it as to how you see yourself. What qualities do you
bring to the table? What unique things can you
offer that special someone? Why should someone
chose you over that hottie they gave their phone
number to last week?

The answers to these questions may take some
time to figure out. In the meantime, here are
some short-term solutions as to how you can
improve your self-confidence:

1. Don’t think negative thoughts.
Ever heard the saying “You are what you eat?”
Well in this case, you are what you think. If you
constantly think you can’t do something, chances
are you are right. If you have never really
experienced success in life, I would suggest this
be the first thing you work on. In a matter of a
few short days/weeks or months you will begin
to experience that little thing in life people call
“success”.

2. Envision yourself in your mind the way you
want to be seen by others.
So you have a fat stomach, so you aren’t that attractive,
so you think everyone laughs at you…..Big deal !!!
The only reason people think those things
about you is because that is how you see yourself.
You may think that the thoughts inside your head
are private and only heard by you…..but you are dead
wrong. What goes on inside that little head of yours
is subconsciously transferred to your outside persona.
Try thinking about yourself in a good light, instead
of a bad light. Instead of you being “fat”, you are
merely just a few pounds overweight.
You walk a few miles a week so you are trying to
lose the weight. etc. Get the idea? Think about
yourself in a good light….and it will come to fruition.

3. Stop the inner critic.
This one kind of goes hand in hand with #2.
Simply put: Don’t put yourself down inside your head !!
Thomas Edison had a saying:

I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.

It’s as simple as that. You only fail when
you stop trying, so quit being so harsh on
yourself. Would you like it if someone in
real life kept putting you down as much as
you put youself down inside your head
on a daily basis? Hell no !! You would
probably want to punch that person in the face
a few times.

4. Be your own cheer leading squad.
The exact opposite of #3. Cheer yourself
on a daily basis, even for the most mundane
accomplishments in life. This may seem
a bit stupid, but over time this happy thinking
reinforces good self confidence.

5. Avoid negative comparisons to others.
I have seen this all too often. A guy goes
out on a date with a really “hot chick” and
he thinks that he can’t get her because he
doesn’t have a lot of money, or isn’t that
good looking compared to other guys. This
is a great way to reduce your value with a
member of the opposite sex. Once
you start comparing yourself to others in
that (and other) regards, you have set
yourself up for failure. If you feel that
you must compare, compare against yourself
against how you were 1 month ago. Once
you start thinking along those lines, you
will see success and progress will follow suit.

6. Make a list of your accomplishments in life so far
I really don’t need to explain this one.
Just do it and you will start to realize
that your low self esteem is nothing more
than:

“In your head”.

God Bless and good luck with your online dating endeavors !!

I apologize to the Gay Bi and Lesbian community for
taking so long to write a post on Gay Bi and Lesbian
online dating services. It has taken me quite some
time to find quality Gay and Lesbian online dating sites.
Over the past few months, several people have warned me
me of certain sites (of which I will not name here) to stay
away from. Over the past few months I have done
research (including several anonymous surveys) as
to which online dating services the Gay and Lesbian
community feel that are the best.
(eHarmony, NOT being one of them)

Note: Generally speaking, the “Bi” online dating services
are coupled in with the Gay and Lesbian online dating sites.
So don’t think I’m excluding you gals and guys !!
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Gay Friend Finder

If you are looking for a Gay hookup sex/swingers and dating site,
look no further….this is the “Big Daddy” of them all !!
Gay Friend Finder allows you to register for free
as a member and browse the tens of thousands of
available singles. In addition, most members have
webcams at their home that they turn on so
you can watch them while chatting with them. You
can also hook up your webcam and broadcast yourself
to anyone who wants to chat/watch. As far as ease
of navigation goes, Gay Friend Finder is really intuitive.
You have a myriad of search options available to you.
Gay Friend Finder has a huge data base of members
and there are thousands of members online at any
given time. The prices are reasonable, and on
par with any mainstream online dating source.
Without a doubt, the webcam feature has to be
the one thing that makes this site really shine.

The Friend Finder family of websites also has the
Lesbian alternative to Gay Friend Finder simply called:
Lesbian Personals.
It is essentially a carbon copy of the Gay Friend Finder
site, although a bit more aesthetically designed.

If the hookup/sex/swingers lifestyle isn’t your cup of
Earl Grey, then here are a few sites that are more geared
towards relationships and actual dating. (anyone ever wish
they would come out with a “Gay and Lesbian” version
of eHarmony? Quality Gay and Lesbian Singles….)
So far, I have not found one yet. Keep checking this
thread because I will update it immediately if one comes out.

is geared towards Gays, Lesbians, Bisexuals, as well as
Transgender people. It is pretty much considered the
premier Gay and Lesbian online dating service out there.
With Gay.com, you aren’t just getting a site that caters
to Gay people, but rather you are getting the complete
Gay and Lesbian experience. The site has many articles
and extra features that make it a deep user experience
and really allow the Gay and Lesbian community to
connect. There is also a feature for some of the more
“frisky” members…..you can view videos and and check
out hot pictures. Instant messaging is also available
for members to chat in a safe environment while online.

Here are the following Gay.com coupons and Gay.com
promotional codes:

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So you finally met the man/woman of your dreams….
Went out on a few dates, and you are now looking
to take it to the next level by inviting them over
to your house. If you are like me, and like to be
semi-frugal when dating someone, then why shell
out $5.00 at your local movie rental store for a movie
that you will probably not even watch (if you are lucky!).

I was recently looking for a cheap, fast, online dvd
rental website and found the following link for:

Blockbuster Total Access is from the same brick-and-mortar
company Blockbuster. With the two week online dvd rental
free trial, you can order dvd movies from the comfort of your
home and have them shipped straight to your mailbox
(my experience has been that it is usually a 24 hour
turnaround time). This way you don’t have to worry about
fighting the crowds in-store or worrying about if the latest
movie that you want to see has already been rented out.
I believe you can also rent video games as well.

The online dvd rental wars have been going on now for
several years. Netflix.com has been hot on Blockbuster’s
heels and is now offering a $4.99/mo. 2 out at a time plan.

Want another tip? Instead of going to your local supermarket
to buy snacks for watching a movie with that special someone
(and paying $10-$15), goto your local dollar store. Where I live,
they have the .99 cents store and I got a ton of candy, popcorn
and drinks for under $5.00.

Here are the new eHarmony promotional code
for the month of July 2008.
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I recently had the opportunity to speak with a representative
of eHarmony and was informed that this time of year is considered
the “busy season” for new members on eHarmony. What does this
mean for you? Tens of thousands of new singles looking for love
and relationship online mean that your chances of finding that
someone special are stronger than ever !
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Here is the link for the Free $40 value Personality Profile:

Expires 7/31/2008

If you are new to eHarmony, take your time in filling
out the personality profile. It is an in depth analysis
of your personality and based upon your answers,
eHarmony will then show their members who you
are most compatible with. You will be able to
view your matches (for free) after the completeion
of the personality profile.

You can also use the eHarmony personality profile
as a tool to see yourself how others see you.
eHarmony gives you a detailed analysis of your
personality that you can print out and save for
future reference. Sometimes it is best to view
ourselves with the eyes of others to see how
other people really view us.

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Little known secret: Check out the
page for all of the latest unadvertised
promotions that eHarmony is running. I found
out about the “Free Communication Weekend”
this way.
=======================================
Exclusive Coupon Code for OnlineDatingMatches.com viewers:
3 Months for the price of 1
CLICK LINK BELOW AND ENTER EHARMONY PROMOTIONAL CODE:
ONLINEDATINGMATCHAAA

Expires: 7/31/2008
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20% off a 6 month subscription AND $24.95 renewal !!
CLICK THE LINK BELOW AND ENTER PROMOTIONAL CODE:
CJSPRINGPROMOAAB

Expires: 7/31/2008
If you wish to renew at the end of your 6 months,
the renewal fee is only $24.95
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20% off a 6 month membership
CLICK LINK BELOW AND ENTER PROMOTIONAL CODE:
CJWINTERPROMOAAA
Expires: 7/31/2008
Note: CJFALLPROMO07 may still work
beyond the expiration date of 5/31/08
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The following eHarmony discounts will
be automatically activated once you click the link. There is no need to
enter in a promotional code

65% off monthly rate with 12 month plan ($468 in Savings)
CLICK BELOW TO ACTIVATE EHARMONY PROMOTIONAL CODE
Expires: 7/31/2008

52% off monthly rate with 6 month plan ($186 in Savings)
CLICK BELOW TO ACTIVATE EHARMONY PROMOTIONAL CODE
Expires: 7/31/2008

38% off monthly rate with 3 month plan ($69 in Savings)
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One Month Membership discount:
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eHarmony also offers eHarmony gift subscriptions. If you know someone
who is single and keeps complaining how a “good man or woman is hard to find”
then buy them an eHarmony gift subscription and watch how quickly they
change their tune:
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Here is how you use an eHarmony promotional code:

1.
2. Once you fill out the Personality Profile eHarmony will
then present to you their analysis (which is SPOT ON) of
you. You will be able to view your matches whom eHarmony
deems most compatible with you.
3. After you choose your monthly subscription (1,3,6 or 12 months)
Then take the eHarmony promotional code listed above and
enter into the box labeled “eHarmony promotional code”.
4. Viola ! You have just saved yourself a considerable amount
of money and are well on your way to finding the love of your life !

These eHarmony codes change from month to month and
sometimes eHarmony offers promotions that are found nowhere
else but on their main website. This is usually the case for the
eHarmony free communication weekend. Generally speaking,
the main page on eHarmony will announce the free
communication weekend long before it is released to
the public. eHarmony has also come a long way in
many different aspects as compared to how they
were just a few short years ago. Check back soon
for our comprehensive in depth eHarmony review !

eHarmony promotional code are great ways to
save money on your monthly eHarmony.com
membership. What makes eHarmony so good?
One of the reasons is that eHarmony invests
in scientific studies regarding relationships
and couples. They then use the data found
by the scientists to make eHarmony an even
better place ! Make sure you use the
eHarmony coupon codes to save some money
because there is no other online dating
site out there that can give you the kind
of rich user experience that eHarmony does !

Over the past few years the area in Southern California
known as Orange County has become a household
word and featured in such films and t.v. shows as:

The Real Housewives of Orange County
Laguna Beach
The O.C. and many more.

Orange County is best known for its wealth
and abundance of beautiful people, which is
why it has gotten so much t.v. and movie
coverage over the years. Affluent communities like
Coto De Caza, Newport Bluffs and areas of Irvine
showcase fabulous wealth, beauty and power.

So where do all of the available singles in the OC goto
when they want to meet someone new?
Here are the top 5 places to meet hot singles
in Orange County:

(note: The following list is my own personal
list of “hot spots” to meet singles in Orange
County. None of the bars/restaurants/hot spots
have paid to be listed here)

1. Pierce Street Annex
330 E 17th St
Costa Mesa, CA 92627-3293
Phone: (949) 646-8500

Without a doubt, the place to meet hot young singles
in Orange County. Pierce Street is a great bar/dance
club. People from all over the OC flock to Pierce Street
on any given night for their cheap booze, no cover charge
and tons of hot singles. They are open until 2am.
On Sundays, they fire up the outdoor BBQ and feature
live music from 4-8pm. Pool tables and a small dance floor
are always packed full. This is a great casual bar for the
20-something crowds and there are always hot girls
and hot guys on any given night.

2.
BeachFire Grill in Ladera Ranch
The BeachFire Grill is a restaurant and bar that features not only
great food and some of the coldest beer you will ever drink,
but also has a surf art gallery featuring some of the best
local surf artists out there.
Since it is located in the affluent community of Ladera Ranch
and next to nearby Coto De Caza you might be rubbing elbows with
anyone of the famous affluent people, sports stars and celebrities
that make South Orange County their home. I used to live in Ladera
and have personally seen several of the “Real Housewives of Orange
County” mixing and mingling inside. BeachFire is a great place to just
chill out and enjoy life. Check out their Myspace page:

3.Fashion Island, Newport Beach
With its elegantly designed architecture
and countless high end shops and boutiques,
Fashion Island attracts many of the wealthiest
(and beautiful) people in Orange County. Located
just miles from the Pacific Ocean, Fashion Island
is a great place to meet local singles. Take a walk
down there and you will see what I mean.

4. Shark Club, Costa Mesa
The only predators you will find at this club are
in the centerpiece 2,000-gallon shark tank.
Centrally located in Costa Mesa, Ca. the
Shark Club is a great bar and grill where locals
from all over Orange County come to mix and
mingle. There are 2 huge dance floors and
the prices are very cheap. Saturday nights
are probably the best time to visit the Shark
Club.

5. Irvine Spectrum
The Irvine Spectrum is located in the middle of Irvine, California.
It is a gargantuan outdoor shopping plaza with shops,
restaurants, movie theater, bars and anything else
you could imagine. I chose the Irvine Spectrum as
the #5 OC hot spot to meet singles because it is
always packed on any given night and there are tons of
bars like Dave and Busters and the Yard House. If you
are looking for hot singles in Orange County, the Irvine
Spectrum is a great place to see and be seen.

There you have it. If you are an OC singles
or just curious about what all the hype is about, there are
5 places to check out to meet new people. If you are looking
for online dating for Orange County, check out .
Traffic levels indicate that singles in Orange County search
flock to eHarmony over any other online dating site. This is
primarily because most of the singles in Orange County
look for quality over quantity and eHarmony attracts quality
singles.

If you consider yourself a Christian and require your potential
partner to be of the same faith, here are some great Christian
online dating sites for you to check out:

eHarmony was originally founded by a Christian minister,
Dr. Neil Clark Warren. By now, you have probably seen
their t.v. commercials running 24/7, but what you probably
don’t know is that eHarmony is widely regarded as the
biggest and best Christian online dating site out there. eHarmony
has been recommended by many pastors and ministers
and is a safe and fun way to meet like minded Christians.

The prices for eHarmony are somewhat higher than other
online dating services, but your chances of meeting that
special someone who shares your faith is much higher, due
to the advertising campaign and thousands of new members
that join eHarmony daily.

ChristianCafe is another great online dating site. It specifically
caters to all denominations of Christians, including:

Adventist singles
Apostolic singles
Methodist singles
Baptist singles
Orthodox singles
Catholic singles
Pentecostal singles
Episcopalian singles
Presbyterian singles
Lutheran singles
United Pentecostal singles

While ChristianCafe may not be as big as eHarmony
nor as widely know, its strong point is that is it an
online dating site specifically for Christians. Many local
ministers and priests have recommended ChristianCafe
to members of their flock. Check out the main page and
you will see many testimonials from members who have
found the love of their life.

The prices for ChristianCafe are very reasonable and
a lot lower than other high end online dating sites.

ChristianCafe is so confident that you will like
their services, they are offering a free trial.
Click here for a 10 day free trial
to

Here is a few of the many areas that you can find
Christian Singles looking for love:

Los Angeles Christian singles
Omaha Christian singles
Milwaukee Christian singles
New York Christian singles

Recently, a whole host of niche dating sites have been
popping up that cater to a specific group of people
and the types of people they like to date.
is one of the newer online dating sites that cater specifically
to Black people and people who like to date Black people.

I went to Blacksingles online dating site and was VERY impressed.
Usually these niche dating sites look like they were thrown
together in a matter of hours by some middle school student
for his mid-term computer class project. BlackSingles is
very well laid out, easy to navigate and has some damn
fine people on there, both men and women. What impressed
me the most was the features on BlackSingles. Let’s take a
closer look at them:

- Free to join.
This is probably the biggest draw to the site. It is free
to join and free to view your matches.

- Free chat room.
Bored? Looking to chat with someone? Then pop into the
chat room and connect with the singles that are online.

- Advice forums.
BlackSingles has a huge online dating advice section
and their members participate regularly. The articles
are well thought out and they are chock-full of advice
to help you succeed in your online dating experience.

- Safety.
Blacksingles is committed to protecting your identity
and safety while dating online. They have many security
features in place that will allow for a safe, but fun online
dating experience.

- Millions of members.
There are millions of members to choose from and you can
browse anyone from any part of the country and chat with
them. BlackSingles is the premier Black online dating site
and each day thousands of new members are joining.

If you are serious about meeting a black person to date, I would
highly recommend this site to increase your chances of success.

So what makes the BlackSingles site so special?
You are simply going to find a bigger pool of Black
people looking to date. If you only date Black people,
then you might be better off joining this site because
statistically speaking, you will have a better chance
at meeting that special someone. What are you waiting for?
Join now and